First things first know your objective in life, which includes what you’re willing to put up with and how far you’re willing to go. Never let someone pull you in any direction beyond how far you’re willing to go neither allow someone to make you compromise your plans or ideas.
The difference in you spinning your own wheels opposed to someone else spinning them is that YOU spin your wheels in the direction YOU want to go, and you also have total control as to when YOU want those wheels to stop. When someone else influences your wheels to spin, chances are you’re not privileged to know what they had in mind, therefore you’re not privileged to know where you’re going and needless to say when you’re bound to stop!
As we deal in every day of life there will always be some sort of “spinning your wheels” it is pretty much how we move through our path, set goals and plans. But, even these aspects can result in diversions, failure and despair. How you live through such dilemmas is that you make sure all the choices and decisions where of your very own from which you can learn and there-by appreciate your arrival. Even following in ones footsteps is a choice of your own, but the actual move should never be of some else, GOD should be our only motivator while we learn from our own mistakes.
So spin for you and no one else and you’ll spare yourself of the many pitfalls that spins us out of touch into the realms of regret, anxiety, anger, feeling abused and last but not least feeling not in control of Your Life!
